We can see an overall increasing trend in divorce rates. The constitution of marriage is not regarded in the same way as it was 100 years ago. More and more the words 'together forever', 'eternal love' and 'happy ever after' are regarded through sceptic eyes. In this hangout, we discuss the Destonian perspective on commitment. How do we know we'll want to spend the rest of our lives with someone? How do I assess if my relationship is working or not? Are lifelong commitments better and does that mean I'm not allowed to break up? These questions and more will be discussed. We continue with practical assessment of compatibility and the relationship in our next relationship hangout - stay tuned!